Develop A Success Mindset – to Achieve All of Your Dreams
In order to develop a successful mindset you have to train yourself to think in a certain way. Not just some of the time, but all the time. That sounds simple, but it isn’t. It certainly wasn’t easy for me. It’s taken me years of practice and reading self-help books, e-books and looking at every video that could help me to overcome insecurity and self doubt.
Set Realistic Goals and Then Allow Yourself to Achieve them.
I believe that when you want something badly enough, you will work at doing whatever it takes to achieve it. Of course, obstacles are known to interfere with what ever life plans you have for your career. For instance, in my life it was getting married and having children. I didn’t really have clearly defined goals. At first, I thought I wanted to be a nurse. Then it was to be a psychologist and none of that happened. What did I know about life at 18 years old………
Set realistic goals. Write them down. Review them to see how you are doing and if you are achieving them. Sometimes goals need updating. Maybe you have some unrealistic goals and you are struggling with them.
But, challenge yourself to see if you can realize something you’ve always wanted but were afraid to pursue. Be afraid and do it anyway!
I did well in school and excelled in whatever minor goal I set for myself. But, I was afraid to reach higher. I now think that I was afraid that I was not good enough. I had what some used to call “stinking-thinking”…….Have you heard of that? I’m sure you have………..It was a popular expression a few years back. If I was close to reaching greatness; I did something to insure that I would fail. I kept making the same mistakes. I would chose the wrong relationships – personal as well as professionally.
I would take the easy way out because it was less painful. I didn’t allow myself to experience what it was like to think out of the box.
The funny thing was that I was working really hard at not “succeeding”……..
Develop A Successful Mindset – Decide to Work Hard.
Most people hate hard work. We are always striving to get by doing little, yet. wanting huge results. When I say that you have to decide to work hard, I don’t mean like physical exhaustive work. I’m talking about setting about to put in the time to do what ever it takes to make your life better.
To make yourself successful and have whatever it is that you desire in life. We create our own reality. Whether we set about to do nothing or we make up our minds to amass abundance, it all starts with a thought.
However, you can sit and think about all the abundance and money in the world but unless you put some action behind the thoughts – nothing will happen. Please read a previous post I did about learning how to sell yourself online.
Yes, I believe in imagining and visualizing what I want to manifest. But taking “massive action” along with imagining and visualizing, will eventually help you make your dreams come true.
Stop Jumping from one Amazing Deal…….. into the Next Fantastic Must-Have Opportunity.
If you are wanting to develop a successful mindset, you will need to stay away from the “dream stealers.” These are the people in your life who make fun of your ideas. I’ll bet anything you know someone like that or maybe a few someones who ridicule you every time you undertake a new adventure.
Maybe you decided to try that online work from home program that a friend suggested and your spouse or significant other rides you about it.
They might be constantly asking you if you’ve made any money yet and you’ve only been at it for a few weeks. Or maybe you had an amazing idea to start your own business. Or maybe building a website and promoting something you’ve always believed would be a fantastic business idea.
That is one major reason why so many people fail online. All it takes is for one rejection or one “dream-stealer” to tease you and you have moved on to something new……………
Sometime ago I found an amazing program that has allowed me to build an online business. It’s Wealthy Affiliate. Have you heard of them? If you want to learn how to do the same be sure to visit my profile.
You Must Focus on Success and not on Money if you want to develop a Successful Mindset.
Have you ever heard the expression, “if you love what you do, the money will come”? Well, this is true. Haven’t we all worked at something we hated in the conventional workplace. Maybe the money was good…..but we hated the work. Or maybe we worked for the worse boss in the world, but because of finances felt stuck and stayed. The money was steady and was there, but, we didn’t love our jobs. What a predicament………..
You must focus on success and whatever it means to you, you will develop a successful mindset. Your mind will become like a steal trap.
There will be no stopping you. No distractions.
No one to stomp on your dreams.
You will need to understand that it will take longer to earn money from your efforts. Especially if the business you are trying to grow is an online business…………
Unfortunately, there are no get rich quick deals here. If anyone tells you that you can make money over night working on the internet, you need to run the other way. That just does not happen. You have to work for at least 6 months. You will need to invest time, money and tons of effort.
But it will pay off! You need to remain consistent and not allow yourself to be veered off track.
If You Show Gratitude and Give Thanks You will Develop a Successful Mindset.
There isn’t a day that passes that I am not being grateful for all the blessing in my life. I must say “thank you” a hundred times a day. When I started giving thanks to God and the Universe for everything including all the bad, there was a major shift in my life. Suddenly, ideas would come to me freely.
I would develop the confidence to do things that were very uncomfortable for me in the past. I challenged myself to tackle difficult things like writing this blog. Putting myself out there like writing a blog does is totally out of my comfort zone. I’ve always enjoyed helping people and trying to help them to learn new things. But, I’ve never done it in this capacity.
I know for a fact that when you ask for guidance with a grateful heart……the answers come and you will be amazed at the world that opens up for you. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you………
So there you have it. Be sure to come back as I continue to discuss ways we can use to improve our lives and how to become successful by thinking a certain way………..
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Here’s to your success!